So, I went to a new hair stylist this morning. He was more expensive, but he gave me a great cut that is exactly what I wanted. Except he was honest that he thought I'd look better with no bangs. (I've been thinking about getting them again...) So, here's a similar cut to the last one, but much improved!
Thursday, October 09, 2008
New Hair
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Economic Politics by Jen
I know very little about politics, and generally stay away. I generally don't even want to discuss politics. I do enjoy listening to Neil Bortz because he is hilarious, and I find myself agreeing with him more and more. But in my core, I am a democrat. Ironcially, I married a Republican. Which means politics come up more at dinner with my family than the used to. Go figure.
I believe in the separation of church and state, yet I certainly also believe in saying personal prayers about God's hand in who becomes elected as well as praying for God's hand in the policies our government makes. I believe it is the responsibility of the Government to take care of people, and provide helping hand programs. I do not, however, believe in hand out programs. I believe that workers do have rights, and that the government should protect the majority of the people out there and not the people running those companies that are all about getting rich rather than treating employees fairly. I think health care should not be run and orchestrated by the government per se, I just think health care should not only be for privileged. I hope and pray that one day Medicare will be available to people who are disabled when they are disabled -- and not two years later because the government wants to save a buck. In the long run, that costs the government more. (Duh --- let's give them monthly money benefits as long as they are sick, but not provide health care at any level for two years. That should be cheaper in the long run. NOT!) I think the government should play a role in economics, but I feel quite strongly that this recent bill STINKS! You can't live in a capitalist society and expect that your own dumb mistakes and risk taking in business will be rewarded with hand outs. And that is what congress just did. I do think a higher insured amount for our bank accounts is excellent. But beyond that, well, both business and investing include risk. I've only had two economic classes in my life and I know that. Suck it up. This would be that risk they were talking about. Why is risk in general well and good, and worth taking, until it effects you? Why should risk only be for other people?!? Hello!
Come on, America. Take responsibility for your self, your own business, your own bad decisions. Is it news that the strength of economies rise and fall? Um. No. Do you know what creates the strongest come back for so called "victims"? The victims that refuse to see themselves as victims, that find power within themselves, and decide to look for the best in even the worst scenario. And the victims with people who love them supporting them, but NOT bailing them out, are always better off in the long run. Hand Outs are useless and prolong the inevitable. Helping Hands give strength when you are down so that you can survive and become better from your experience.
Only wish our government had thought through things more and realized that.
I work for the government, and love my job. I also believe in the Social Security system, yet agree that some serious reforms are needed for SSA. There are many times that I take a disability claim and get great satisfaction knowing that the claim I am taking is the exact scenario SSA was meant to help with. By the same token, I too often take disability claims where I am happy to know there is NO WAY this person will get approved, and I am glad there are structures in place to make sure it goes to only the people that truly qualify.
But, y'all, the government is a mess. It's not like we have a CEO that makes a decision that gets carried out immediately. A decision gets suggested, the congress has to vote on it, then it gets pondered and revised for a year or two, and then they have to write the policy that outlines the process with which to carry out the decision, and then they spend a year or two revising that (it must be approved at many, many layers of government), and then they have to figure out the forms that will have to be used to make sure that only the correct, intended, people will benefit from this decision. And then they have to train whoever it is that is going to decide who is eligible how to decide who is eligible, and then, they have to have an appeal process so that if someone feels like they were wrongly disqualified they have the right to fight it. And then, they implement that original - all be it -- slightly altered decision. And, about that time, a new decision gets put out there because that first decision doesn't look like such a great idea once it is actually implemented. Case in point--- the medicare prescription drug program. Screwing old people all over the country, and prescriptions often cost more in the end - when you include the premiums and the so call doughnut void in the middle of the year-- than they used to. Thank goodness for Wal-Mart and Kroger and $4 prescriptions!
At any rate, my humble prediction is that this "rescue" bill is going to prolong the economic crisis, create a scenario where people take more risk because they figure the government will fix the problem when it doesn't work out, and then create a cycle where government gets way, way too much power.
Thursday, October 02, 2008
CFC Campaign
Monday, September 29, 2008
FACEBOOK is where it's at ....
Monday, September 08, 2008
Ups and Downs
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Burglary Truth
Friday, August 22, 2008
Maya Angelou Poem
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
prayer request
Please pray for Ben and I as we seek answers and adjust to this news. I pray from the bottom of my heart, and with great earnestness, that God will grant us peace with the process, be especially present in our communication with one another, and give us guidance in what this all means for us and our family.
I am extremely grateful for our dear friends and family, who I know will be super supportive while all this gets sorted out. We love you guys.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Adoption Meeting
But I wanted to let everyone know that my adoption meeting this morning went fine. We have a few misc. documents to gather up, then we'll get our home study scheduled.
We're having church folks over this Saturday for our first shin-dig at our new home, so I'm trying to get the house ready. Not that they would care how it looks (one of the things I love about Midtown!) but because it's an excellent "deadline" and reason for me to get some things taken care of that I still have on my TO DO list.
Good Night!
Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Independent Jen
So, fast forward 3 years into our marriage. My need for Jen time is less, but does still creep up. And Ben is good about giving me space, or not complaining if I disappear for a day running errands. Or "get lost" in Target or Wal-Mart.... for hours.
Please don't think ill of me when I get excited about my honey bunches going away to Florida for a business trip in the morning. Or that I asked him to call me just ONCE while he's gone. This annual business trip is the only three and a half days we spend apart each year. Pretty much, except if I head to Baltimore for a quick weekend. He's just gone from Wednesday morning until Saturday evening. And, for me, nothing could be better for our relationship. I think they created the saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" with me in mind.
Freedom! Imagine! Three and a half days where the house cleanliness and picked-up-ness is only affected by me. No dishes miraculously appearing in the sink and no newspapers spontaneously appearing all over the living room. And where I get to do my own schedule, based on my own wants and whims, and without regard to what's best for or most desired by my husband.
Now, just you wait. By Saturday I'll be checking my watch every few minutes to see how much longer until Ben's plane lands or until Ben drives into our garage! (Seriously. I think if you look to my blog entry from a year ago, you will see that is exactly what happened last August!)
But for the moment, at least, I'm very excited about my Jen time and having the house all to my self. (-;
Sunday, August 03, 2008
PMS influenced rant
When I got a job, I looked forward to getting a different job, and, now that I truly enjoy my work (most days, at least), I still look forward to the weekends. BUT, now I am at the end of my weekend, and I'm thinking about how much I wasted of my weekend, how I didn't really enjoy much of it (except dinner last night --- thanks MOM!), and how many things I SHOULD have taken care of that I didn't. Maybe I'll get them taken care of next weekend. Or maybe I'll waste that one, too.
Of course I realize that there is a point. The most fulfilling aspects of life are our relationships with others and allowing God to live through us. But isn't it just sometimes too easy to get distracted in self absorption and stray off that path?
Am I alone here? Can I get an "AMEN"?
Monday, July 28, 2008
Merry Christmas, Ben
Anyway, just wanted to let you all know -- and rest easier -- that we picked up Ben's iPhone tonight. He's happily getting it all synced up and just his way in the other room.
Merry Christmas, Honey Bunches! (not that it was from me.... it was from Santa, I mean my parents..)
His cell phone number is the same. And he'd love for you to give him a call. (-;
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Facebook Photo Album
Facebook Photos
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Guest Nursery
We have a guest room and a guest nursery. Leif got to use the guest nursery today, and of course Amie, Ben and Sonny were the first to use the guest room and guest nursery. Anyway, I'd promised to post some photos of our cute froggie nursery. It's not completely done -- we'll probably get yellow walls, etc-- but it's probably done until there is an adopted Greenwald baby on its way.
Oh, and check out Ben practicing his "Daddy" skills:
Aren't they both cute?
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Adoption Individual Meetings
Meanwhile we ought to be working on our profile. Anybody have pictures of us we should be sure to include? It's hard to know what will catch the eyes of the birthmoms.... then again, the important thing isn't the profile or the pictures and words in the profile. It's trusting God on His timing and choice for our family. Of course, that isn't to say we won't put lots of effort into the profile, just that we need to try not to stress out over it. (-;
About 3 of the couples from our class already have their profiles posted on the Bethany website. They're way ahead of us! It is kind of strange to flip through those thinking about what ours should say. On one hand they all sort of say "Choose us, we'll give your baby a great home, we believe in God, and we're neat people". On the other hand, one way or another, we need to make our profile personal and individual enough so that it touches the birthparents that are looking for people like us.
Strange. An advertisement brochure - complete with pictures- to choose us as parents for your baby. A necessary evil for this day and age I suppose. What a weird world we live in.
Monday, July 21, 2008
Swimming Sonny
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
HELLO? Anyone there?
Then again, I happen to be an open person, so I don't care if I wear my thoughts and feelings on my sleeve. It's mostly for myself anyway. I think. But I'm not really sure....
Well, if you do read what I write, thanks for reading. And I hope I'm not boring your pants off!
Missing Friends
Anyway, we extend a special invitation to anyone from Midtown who is looking for a lifegroup.... please join us next Wednesday and help us decide what to study next. Just finished Watchman Nee's Sit Walk Stand tonight... so it's a great time to jump in and give us a try!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Wall-E Reward
Our end of the day "reward" for our hard work was to go see Wall-E. It was a great movie. You should know before you go that there is no dialogue for most of the movie, but you don't really miss it. The music and animation were extremely well done, and the story is sweet. It also makes a pretty political point about our messy world and lazy society. I'm not big into the whole global warming scheme, or the need for "going green", but there does need to be some respect for our environment. Point well taken.
See you at church chow!
Whew, I need a break.
Adoption is just very different from having a romantic night together and having a baby 9 months later, I tell you what! Blood work, fingerprinting with background checks, 911 history check (do you think we might be refused from that time I cleaned the oven while away at church and the FABULOUS East Point firemen had to come?!?), physicals, references from your pastor, references from your friends, references from work, references from a family member, meeting with an adoption counselor, adoption classes, CPR class, no certainty on how long your wait might be - a few months or a few years?!- and a home invasion. Oops, I mean home study. (-;
Seriously, though, Bethany is fabulous and does their best not to make it all as oppressive as it could be. I'm just thankful we're working with them and not some crazy Adoption Facilitator like this lady named Marcia we went to an introduction meeting for. "Pay us lots of extra money, and you'll have your baby in just a few months!"
Speaking of attaining beautiful babies, many CONGRATS to Donna Marie and Mark on the arrival of their precious son Will. His big sister Gwennan is adorable, so no doubt he will be also!



